Inviting Immediate Family

I’m all about doing what you want with your wedding. This is an exception.

An invitation needs to be extended to ALL of your immediate family. Period. Whether you haven’t talked for years or don’t see eye to eye, invite them all.

Mothers, Fathers, Sisters, Brothers, Children and Grandparents.

Obviously, there are exceptions to this rule. However, more often than not, the reason for not extending an invite is due to bitterness or resentment. As the years go by, your reasonings get more and more ingrained. A joyous occasion as monumental as a marriage brings out joy in people. Your invitation could be a positive change in your relationship. Let bygones be bygones and start anew. Afterall, you are.

Ponder these questions. Think of how you feel now, how you might in 10 years and how you may 30 years from now.

1. Will I be upset if {name} wasn’t there?
2. Will the act of inviting or not inviting {name} cause turmoil?
3. Will {name} be hurt not being invited?

Ultimately, you want your day perfect with your family and friends.

I just ask you this: before crossing someone off your guest list (family or not), think of the potential outcome.  It’s hard to rebuild a burnt bridge.