If I could go back, I would do a first look and mostly candid photos. Fifteen years ago I never even heard the idea. I just could not get past walking down the aisle in my white gown and seeing my future husband standing at the “altar” waiting for me. It was more like I wanted him to see me for the first time dressed as a bride to marry HIM….and I wanted everyone I loved to see this, too. I have to say, I WAS mesmerized. As soon as I locked eyes on him, they didn’t sway. The world around me just didn’t matter…just him. I gazed at him the entire walk down that aisle.
Would I change that? You bet your ass I would. In hindsight, I would have planned a “first look” (aka, spoiler). We spent so much time having photographs done that we barely had time to unwind and enjoy time with our guests. Granted, the whole night seemed to last a whole 10 minutes, but….I would have liked to enjoy my reception instead of being arranged here and there with a permanent smile on my face. 15 years ago, the standard photos (bride, groom & parents, etc. etc. etc.) and the big fat wedding album were part of the deal. I guess some couples still want those, but let’s face it – how often do I look back at those formal pose photos? Probably two or three times in eighteen years. I would have rather have had the time socializing with my loved ones than a chance to look at photos in a dusty photo album that weighs a hundred pounds.
Can’t get past having future hubby see you for the “first time” in the aisle? Opt for mostly candid photos. Sure, you can have perhaps a dozen of the must have formal shots…..but, the rest can be all candid. Photographers now love that and it is the IN thing. AND, that will capture the true feel of your day. This way your precious wedding day time is not eaten up by poses.
Here are some amazing first look shots. Maybe this will sway you from waiting until walking down the aisle.
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